What is cool?

As comic book fans we are pretty much in the forefront of what cool is. The history of comics is an encyclopedia of coolness. If it were not for rock’n’roll, comics would be the absolute standard of coolness. Take a look all the stuff that comics are responsible for in popular culture.

We each have our own gauge of what cool is. Me? I’m all over the place with what or who I think is cool. I think George Clooney is cool and I have little respect for “movie stars,” as any regular reader of this column knows. I think that Gary Shandling is cool and one of the funniest men on the planet. I think that DC comics are cool even if I have had issues with them and they have with me. I think American Idol is cool mostly ,because so many so-called “hip” people think it’s lame. I think HGTV is cool. I think that Stan Lee is cool because he has earned that title. I think that Prince and Patrick Swayze are cool. To me Alan Greenspan is cool and so is Brian Williams.

The shows Family Guy and American Dad are cool but so is every one of those Law and Order shows. Mike Richardson and Dark Horse comics are cool. The staff at Comic Con International and the staff at The Westin Horton Plaza Hotel (especially Jean) are cool. I think the Amish are cool. I know that ComicMix is cool.

 

Hell, I’m a liberal Democrat but I think that John McCain is cool. I told you, I’m all over the place when it comes to cool. To me being cool is having a presence that is all yours. I don’t have to understand it; I do have to respect it for being true to its self.

That brings me to the coolest MoFo in the world to me.

Frank Sinatra.
 
As I have mentioned way too many times, I grew up in the projects. The very first album I ever brought with my own money was Elton John’s Captain Fantastic and The Brown Dirt Cowboy. Hey, you try going into a record store in the ‘hood and asking for an album by some strange looking white boy. I remember asking for that record as quietly as I could and the guy who sold it to me said “What’s next homeboy, Frank Sinatra?”

Somehow I knew who Frank Sinatra was even if this was the first time anyone had ever mentioned him to me. This is how big Sinatra was. He was so big a 14-year-old kid from a housing project, which was by this time 99% black, knew who Sinatra was.

Now that’s cool.
 
As a fan I did not get into Sinatra until 1996 when Denys Cowan introduced me to him. Denys and I have a long history of introducing the other to things, which we then become obsessive about. I introduced Denys to video games he got me involved in comic conventions. Denys hooked me up with Sinatra I turned him on to Asian women… OK, I did not exactly turn him on to Asian women. Let’s just say I told him that he should… never mind; that story will never come out right. Let’s just say Denys and I respect each other enough to give things a try and most times those things turn into life long endeavors.

Denys and I were talking about music and personalities and weather an artist’s behavior made his music more or less likeable. My position is the music is separate from the behavior of the artist. That’s why I can love the music of Elton John and Michael Jackson but hate the way they conduct their personal life. Elton John thinks that what he says outside his music is just as important as his music and Michael Jackson is just an idiot.

I can’t tell you just how big a fan I was of both of them. Don’t get me started!

During the course of this conversation Denys mentioned Sinatra and my world was changed. I went out that same day and brought a book on his life and read it while I listened to his music.

DAMN that boy was bad! That’s “boy” as in person who I would like to hang out with and “bad” as in good. That’s for all you blue collar, high school dropouts who may not understand slang…or Obama.

I never thought I would fall in love with a man, but Sinatra was just all that and a ham sandwich. There is no way to do his life justice in this column. I simply lack the skills to give you the true scope of the man.

This week is the 10th anniversary of his death. I had a Frank Sinatra calendar up when he died. How freaky was that, eh?

I rarely make recommendations. I realize that I have such a strange view of the world that any suggestions I make may be misunderstood. But I will make an exception in this case because I think that Sinatra is a great man.

If you think you know Sinatra from what you read in the papers or seen on the news you don’t. I suggest you pick up one of the many fine books on him. I’ve read so many I really can’t suggest just one, but I will say pick up one that talks about his life as well as his music. In fact in some very real ways his life was more important.

Like I said, I lack the skills to truly do the man justice but I will say this about him; he did it his way.

And that’s cool.

Michael Davis is cool.